The Secreat: Anna

C.R.A.F.T. is one simple technique to change the Self-Image to reach the highest stage of competence, namely "Not Aware Capable" or "Sub-Conscious Competence". C.R.A.F.T. is an acronym of Cancel, Replace, Affirm, and Training, where the technique is simple though, but the effectiveness is good, with a note that the Self-Image is trying to achieve is really supported by the concept and a good understanding.

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Before proceeding with a detailed explanation of CRAFT, then first we will "jump" moment into a discussion of the three pillars, namely: "Mindset & Life Style". Why? Because one of the effectiveness of various methods CRAFT or "programming" that there is actually very dependent on how "necessary" and how "urgent" program for us? So once again, is not often that one of his methods, but his program would have no relevance to "close" to our needs!

The point? For example, I think we all agree that the "earnest" is one of a positive nature, which must have been very useful for situations and circumstances as well! But why do we all do not automatically try to make "diligent" as one of nature or "Self-Image" us? Yes! Because not every one of us can directly connect "diligently" with the results we hoped for! Borrowing the term "NAC", the nature of "sloppy" is not connected directly with the "pain", but in general we are very easily motivated when something is directly related to the "pain" we!

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For example, Indonesia is generally a man aged about 30 years is "unconscious" had a very, very strong desire to own their own home, within the meaning of a house owned on behalf of itself, a matter that it was the home via a mortgage with a 40-year period is about later! Why? Because the house is one of the "symbol" is important for Indonesia. Maybe this is one of the effects due to the term "household" in Indonesian culture. Millions of reasons can be revealed how the need for "home" for the people of Indonesia. Even though "weaving" at the end of the world, it was more "comfortable" and "respectable" than live in Menteng, but in a "contract"?!

And unique, because it de-facto already become a "necessity", the "law of attraction" is generally easy to work for the affairs of this one! Starting from the office to get a loan facility DP, up to the house to see ads DP 0%, etc.. I am confident that the readers of this portal can tell many "miracle" when realizing the "home" each dream!

Why? Perhaps the status of "no home" really terelasi with a "pain" cultural & social for most of us!

But oddly enough, have the vehicle and the deposit is still difficult? Why is not it? Therefore, we propose might be to replace the term "Home-Appliances" with "house-car-Deposit-Stairs", so that the "law of attraction"-also can work more easily to it?!

Sorry, the above illustration is not intended to generalize, but really just an example that may be very common for our culture. The moral is that something that has been transformed into a "necessity", the easier it will be programmed into us!

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Well, to do with Self-Image and CRAFT what?

Respect is how to design Self-Image is about good and necessary, especially for his "law of attraction ', and smell become a" must "for ourselves? Because if it is a "necessity", then of course its programming would be relatively easy?!

Again this is not something easy! In fact this is one of the "keys"! Therefore, I will immediately "jump" moment to expose the third pillar, so that we can do some "reframing" is useful to compile a "Self-Image" is!

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The third pillar: Mindset & Lifestyle

Mindset & Lifestyle is meant here is a mindset and lifestyle that may be considered in order to enter the "law of attraction lifestyle".

Some Mindset & Lifestyle these will probably be "overlapping", because it actually describes the same territory, but from a different angle!

Okay, we begin to break down each of these pillars to-3.

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Mindset & Life Style: "Awareness"

Awareness is rather difficult to translate in Bahasa Indonesian, because this word has a meaning that is deeper than just a "consciousness". Javanese and Sundanese languages in terms that are almost similar, which is "aware"! Perhaps we should consider this as "Awareness" is the "Self-Awareness Every Time"!

I personally put the "Awareness" as one of the key "miracle" is very, very important man!

Have we ever heard the classic line like this:

"Well ..... we are suddenly so many gray hairs I ya! "
"Gile ... now that I'm struggling up the stairs!"

Weird huh? Almost every day we looked in the mirror, but why all of a sudden it's a new day "gray" new look? Is the "gray" it suddenly appeared? Of course not! Is it possible that the mirror is broken, so the new can display the "gray" today? Of course not! Was kept how? The new fact today we are "awakened" that our hair started going gray?

Yes this is a simple explanation of "Awareness"! Basically none of which lasted all of a sudden in ourselves or in our lives! Being older, being sick, being poor, being rich, it has never taken place "suddenly"! It all takes place in a "continuous" .... but we often make it a "dotted line" with no operation "awareness" is perfect!

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Have you "aware" of changes that occur in our bodies every square millimeter on each morning when you shower? Lest we in one day was shocked ... "Loh why my stomach is now so bloated".

Have you "aware" how many pieces of our hair is falling out or change color every time we looked in the mirror? Lest we in one day was shocked ... "Loh why I was bald huh?".

Have we "aware" of the movement of our own emotions when we experience a "good event" and "adverse events"? Perhaps one day we said: "I am really sad now easy huh? And once while I was a young cheerful ".

Have we "aware" how success and failure stories are created every day in our lives? Lest we contemplate one day and said "Now I am really unlucky only huh? Whereas I used to always get what I want! "

Have we "aware" how the decline in our ability to walk every day? Lest we contemplate one day and said, "Now why I walk an hour my knees are shaking it?"

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Awareness makes you never "lose" anything! Instead "lose" is a sign that we are separated from the "continuity" of our own lives due to no or reduced "Awareness"!

Have you "aware" of the food that we eat in a day in our lives? Whether we are "aware" that there are farmers who have taken pains to cultivate rice for the rice we eat? That there is a vegetable trader who has contributed around to distribute the vegetables that we eat now? That there is a fish who sacrificed his life to be a side dish we?

Awareness is consciousness at all times in all aspects of the lives we live! Awareness will lead us to realize what we have! Awareness will lead us to maintain what we have! Awareness may even lead us to be able to have what we have as yet! And clear .... Awareness will lead to a sense of gratitude! And gratitude will attract a greater sense of gratitude again! The Law of Attraction!

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Law of Attraction has been and always works! But only with "Awareness" we can read the "miracle" is indicated by the universe for us!

So ..... whether the "Awareness" good enough to make us as one of "necessity" for ourselves?

For example by making it as one of the program for "Self-Image" we:

What happens when I follow the advice bestseller for two months.

Several decades before the best seller was published, my father knew the secret of the Secret. He realized there were people with esoteric knowledge who controlled all the wealth, have all the powers, and are specifically excluded him from getting any. He bought books from the time appointed, such as The Secret, to unlock this mystery. I like to listen to him spin theories about how things actually work-until either I'm too old to believe in again, or turn him further and further from reality. He died with nothing, living under a pseudonym.

So, I'll admit that I have come to Secret with a negative attitude. When I bought it, I quickly put it in a plastic bag, glancing around Barnes & Noble to make sure I do not see that I know. The last time I was embarrassed at a bookstore was when I bought The G Spot, another best seller that provides instruction to achieve happiness. Human guinea pigs for the column, I usually do things that readers are too shy or too smart to do your own, such as entering a beauty pageant or entertaining at children's birthday party. I want to see if I apply the rules of Secret life will take me a promise perfect happiness. But millions of you have beaten me to this one. Now there are 5.3 million copies in print in the United States, and publisher Simon & Schuster said it has sold about 150,000 a week. A separate DVD version has sold at least 1.5 million copies. The group has been formed to discuss how best to live by the rules of The Secret. This is the No. 1 best seller in Australia, Britain, and Ireland, and is scheduled to be translated into 30 languages.
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There is no secret to The Secret. The book and movie simply state that your thoughts control the universe. Through the "law of attraction" you want "real" you. "It is exactly like placing an order from a catalog .... You should know that what you want is yours when you ask." "See yourself living in abundance and you will pull it It works every time, with everyone .." The appeal is clear. Forget education, business, performance. Everything you want-money, power, comfort shoes, you just want it's enough.

There are certain warnings. Apparently the universe has a language-processing disorder and did not understand the use of standard English words no, no and no. Thus, the book explains, if you call the universe by saying, "I do not want to spill something on this outfit," the universe translates this as, "I want to spill something on this outfit." If only Rhonda Byrne, television producer who is the author and creator of the DVD, there have been negative advice of the authors of the Ten Commandments!

Byrne says Shakespeare, Newton, Lincoln, and Einstein all owed their achievements to their understanding of the law of attraction. He asserted that "the discoveries of quantum physics ... total harmony with the teachings of The Secret." To prove this, he explains, "I never studied science or physics at school, but when I read complex books on quantum physics I understood it perfectly because I want to understand it." (Pop quiz, Rhonda:? What is the energy of a single photon [in eV] from the light source with a wavelength of 400 nm) The book is adorned with quotations from great men of history that supposedly re-statement of The Secret. Take it from Winston Churchill: "You create your own universe as you go along." Something about it seems to me there was not very Churchillian. I looked it up and it turns out Churchill did write it, but his mocking characterization of metaphysical twits of his day.

Given my doubts, how can I make myself believe in The Secret enough to give a fair test? Quoting one of the avatars of The Secret, Ralph Waldo Emerson, "A foolish consistency is the scourge of small minds." Clearly, The Secret is crap, but why would that stop me from sincerely throwing myself into to see if it worked? I have been very prone to superstition and see the signs-if I find a penny (face up anyway), I took it knowing something good will happen to me. As selfish as I already am, I love this book gives permission sink deeper into the Jacuzzi of megalomania. Like the secret is showing: "You are the ruler of the universe You are the heir of your kingdom is the perfection of Life ..." Just as I always suspected!

So, I vowed to follow Byrne's simple rules for abundance and see what happens. This book encourages one to start big: ". It's as easy to manifest one dollar as to make a million dollars" But I think it starts with a million dollar manifestation was like saying, "I love you" on the first date, I do not want to scare the natural universe that did not receive my phone. I came up with three things that I think the universe would find reasonable: the kitchen floor, unclogged sinuses, and the new table.

At this point I should add that The Secret is not only nonsense-nonsense destructive. The obvious question that arises from its claim that it's easy to get what you want, is: Why do so many people do not get what they want? As Byrne writes, "The mind is not perfect is the cause of all human diseases, including disease, poverty, and unhappiness." Yes, according to The Secret, people do not just randomly end up being slaughtered, for example. They are in the wrong place because they are bad ideas. Cancer patients have long been a victim of the school confidence. But The Secret took it to a new level and more disgusting with advice not only to blame for their disease, but to avoid them, lest you start being infected by their bummer thoughts, too.

But see, I need a kitchen floor, and if your friends leave the sick and loved ones is what it takes, well, who really enjoyed the visit at the bedside, anyway? We recently renovated our house, and everything works great except our kitchen floor. Remember being told at school that the Holy Roman Empire was not holy, Roman nor an empire? My kitchen floor should be acid-stained concrete. And while the floor, it was not acid stain or concrete. Instead it is made from a kind of epoxy, with a surface that looks as if my dog had fallen into a mud pit and then come in and roll on it. I spent weeks trying to find an easy and inexpensive way to resurface it. One person said that the concrete he came to fix it, I have to delete all my gear and the edge, let him hone existing floor and pour a new surface, and pay $ 4,000 to do so. Fortunately, he decided the job was too small and hard to no avail. Covering the floor with cork tiles will require the removal tool and spending approximately $ 3,500. And so it went with each alternative.

So, I followed the advice of The Secret and was told the call center of the universe that I wanted, fast economical, fun, and durable kitchen floor. Once I did that, the next step is to enter such an intense state of visualization as if I already have a new floor. Byrne writes: "A shortcut to realize your desire is to see what you want as absolute fact." Although most people who see things that are not considered to have delusions, I went with Byrne's recommendation to "act as if you already have it." One day my husband called from work to check the home range of issues, and I said, "I am very grateful that I finally got a beautiful kitchen floor."

Pull your Soul Mate with the Law of Attraction

How do you use the law of attraction to attract your soul mate? Law of attraction says that you attract into your life whatever you focus your energy on - whether it is desirable or undesirable. "Vibes" that you put into the Universe either positive or negative and the universe responds.
Analyze Yourself

This is apparent in the way you appear when you go out. If you feel good about yourself, you wear something nice and smile and make eye contact with people - so send positive vibes. If you are consumed by thoughts and worries, you tend to discard anything that is available internally and stay focused when out and about.

You can find out every time you talk to someone and they suddenly look like they are no longer there - as if they follow your conversation to a point, but then you lose them. Often, you can also tell when you've just said something the other person find offensive or disagree with - their body language shifted radically.

Many times, we are not even aware of how we present ourselves to others. We do not realize that a change in tone or body language appear as dramatic as they can. We can not see ourselves bent, our hands crossed, leaning away from that person, and other body assuming a defensive position. But the people we spoke with could feel the vibrations of us. They can know that we are angry or upset or disturbed - even if we half-heartedly tried to fake an interest.

If you want to attract your soul mate, start by looking at yourself. What image do you present to the people? If you can, video recordings of conversations between you and a friend and take notes. Do you look confident and attractive? Did you remove the right vibration that says you are a warm and funny individual who cares? Do you have a nervous habit or habits that you can change?
Inventory of Your Relationship

Next, take a brief inventory of different relationships that are currently in your life. That support and encourage your relationship? Negative and critical? If you have more negative than positive relationships in your life, ask yourself why you attract and are attracted to negative people.

Now, think about the positive relationships you have. What attracts you to people? What do you enjoy and appreciate most about them?

Get completely clear on the negative traits you do not want to attract and positive qualities you want to attract. Shifting the focus and attention so that every time you see the positive qualities in people you meet, you make friends with them.
Attract your Soul Mate

How can you apply it to attract your soul mate? Start by building a list of all the negativity you experience in your previous relationship. This is a list of things you do not want - or a potential deal breaker - in your next relationship. If your partner before sharing a number of negative characteristics such as ignoring you, bad communicator, pessimistic, work, travel too much, etc., maybe you can find patterns and stop yourself from dating the next guy who fits your fare.

Now, make a list of all the positive things you want in your relationships. What do you want? What positive qualities do you need to feel loved, appreciated, admired, and respected?

Finally, take a hard look at yourself. Often the things we are most critical about others are things we do ourselves. Do you emit positive vibes? Do you meet all your needs to have a positive and loving? Or do you still have the baggage and bad feelings towards the people in your past?

You will attract what you focus on, so if you want an ideal relationship with The One, you have to live life fully. Forgive and release all the negative things you still hold on to or that would become an obstacle to attract your soul mate

"Love is .. sometimes there is no logic! "said Agnes Monika singing and dancing to the pounding strongly. Whether they are familiar or not, but clearly likeminded also sung by the singing Dirly Indonesian Idol, "I love this ignorant, close to my senses!"

And not only love the fog can shut the human brain, the sense of sight can join chant Fleet tergelapkan as in the song Love Is Blind. So stupid and blind, not surprising journey of love making people hit and injured. Backstreet Boys That's why bemoan the heart cry of the already messy, erratic, and powerless with the song Love It Kill.

Law of Attraction - Ask and It Is Given

How do you decide what you want to manifest in your life? If you ask most people what they want, they will be happy to rattle off a long list of demands: big house, nice car, a perfect relationship, Superbowl tickets, new HDTV, a trip to Paris, good health, and so forth. I think the reason the law of attraction is so interesting is because it promises that whatever you ask, you can manifest in your life.
Too Good to Be True

But with anything that "sounds too good to be true," there is often a catch. The catch with the law of attraction is just what you think is - if you are not serious about realizing your goals into reality, they will just stay a dream. All of us can now imagine someone handed us a bag full of bank notes $ 100 without too much trouble - not a good feeling to reach into the bag and pulled out a fistful of Benjamins? Think about all you can do with it - how would you feel? Have you already spent a good chunk of dough? Do you feel relieved? Does it solve all - or at least most - of your problem?

I'm guessing you have no problem imagining your sack full of money, but just because you visualized it does not mean it magically materialized in front of you. It's fun to think that might happen - but most of us do not expect a bag of cash to land in our lap today. So it's not enough to think and feel positive about something, but it's a good place to start.

How to Use the Law of Attraction

So how do you start to realize things into your life? The secret is two-fold:

Write down all the things you want to manifest in your life. Now, send them by priority.
Committed to taking action to achieve your # 1 priority.

Every day, imagine yourself already achieved or realized your # 1 priority in your life. Then, take one step toward making it happen. Positive thinking will only get you so far - you still have to take action.
How To Meditate

As human beings we are emotional creatures, so it's easy to get caught up in our emotions at the expense of others. If something bad happens, we lose ourselves in fear, fear and negative thinking. Only then we can take a step back and realize we are blowing things out of proportion.

A good way to take back control of your emotions and to stay focused is to begin to meditate every day. Meditation is the practice of sitting still and count your breaths as you let go of any thoughts you may have. Anyone can meditate - just sit somewhere and be aware of your breath. Try to sit as still as possible and not think about anything for 10-15 minutes. If thoughts arise (and they will!), Label them "thinking" and let them go. Return to your breath.

Using the law of attraction in your life is not difficult, but not take focus. What do you want to make today? What action can you take now to get you started?

DVD Review: Negotiating Conflict: Leadership in Times of Crisis (Inner Strength Films)

Conflict Negotiation is part of Tony Robbins Inner Strength Films with psychotherapist Cloe Madanes where Tony coaches the audience members to free themselves from their fears and take control of their lives.

This particular film is very strong due to the current leadership conference two days in Hawaii on 09/11/2001. The conference was attended by approximately 2000 people from 40 different countries (including 100 residents of New York) and everyone has different reactions to what happened around 3:00 Hawaii time. Some people cry. Some have lost loved ones or business in the attack. Some see it as no big deal - because this kind of thing happening in their country all the time. Some are celebrated, called the attack "retribution". Others fought among themselves.

Tony considered canceling the show that day but choose to support those who need it while addressing the different reactions and try to defuse the destructive emotions. He focused on the topic of emotional mastery and how each audience member has the ability to choose how they react to the day's events - in particular, how they answer the following questions: Who needs help? What to do now? What is in my control? What can I do now?

Initially, Tony worked with the entire audience, asking members to share how they feel. A woman reveals how she was uncertain about whether he wanted to marry her fiance. After the first day of the conference, he left his fiancee a voice message saying he was now committed to marrying her. He's got a voice mail at work - 101 on the floor of one tower - and contacted him to say goodbye. Remarkably, even though she was very sad, he learned how important it is to live life fully and offer a message of hope.

After hearing from a variety of audiences, Tony turns the focus to a smaller group of New York and show how they react to the events of the day reflects how they react to other events in their lives. A woman ran the department of the hospital and was overcome with guilt that she was not in NY to help. Another woman who is full of anger only see a bleak future and can not see how any good or hope to get out of there. A third woman could only lament after he called everyone he knew for sure they are safe. Tony shows how they react to the crisis mimics how they react to events that are lower.

Finally, Tony worked one on one with two people: Asad, a Muslim, and Bernie, a NY Orthodox Jews. This process is designed to regulate the indirect negotiations between two people of opposing views, so that people will talk directly with Tony, who else would watch him and wrote down what he said. Later, they switched roles. Tony reframed their questions of how to solve the Israel-Palestinian conflict on internal questions they can control. He asked why each of these issues are important to them and how they can resolve internal conflicts.

As Tony train the audience through a hard day, Cloe explains Tony intervention and negotiation methodology and offers tips for how viewers can use this methodology in their own lives.

This is a great video for leaders who find themselves in the middle of the world view of duel or need to take a leadership role in a tragic event (ie natural disasters) or shocking news (ie the sudden death of a loved one, a business crisis). Tony strategies help individuals to relieve destructive emotions such as blame, anger and despair by focusing on issues within their control - in particular, their emotional reaction, what issues matter to them, personally, and what they can do to make a difference. In terms Asad and Bernie, both creating an organization to help Jews and Muslims understand one anther and to make peace rather than violence.

This DVD comes with 29 page workbook download that functions as a reflection to how you've handled the shocking news in the past and can act as an action plan for leadership in times of crisis or conflict.

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